SHRED: Retain-Set-Free Unlearning via Self-Distillation with Logit Demotion

Machine unlearning for large language models (LLMs) aims to selectively remove memorized content such as private data, copyrighted text, or hazardous knowledge, without costly full retraining. Most existing methods require a retain set of curated examples to prevent catastrophic degradation of general model utility, creating an extra data dependency that complicates deployment. We propose SHRED (Self-distillation via High-surprisal-only Retain-set-free Entropy Demotion), a retain-set-free unlearning method built on a key insight: not all tokens within a forget set instance carry memorized information equally. High-information tokens concentrate the model's memorized knowledge, while low-information tokens reflect general language competence. SHRED operates in two stages. (1) Selection: We perform a forward pass on a forget set instance, collect per-token autoregressive probabilities, and select the bottom-$P$ (lowest probability, highest Shannon information) as forget positions; the remaining positions are retained as benign anchors. (2) Training: We construct modified KL targets that demote the memorized token's logit at forget positions while preserving the original distribution at benign positions. The model is then trained via a single top-$K$ KL self-distillation objective that simultaneously drives forgetting and utility preservation. We evaluate SHRED across four standard unlearning benchmarks and demonstrate that it establishes a new Pareto-optimal trade-off between forget efficacy and model utility, outperforming retain-set-dependent methods. Our analysis shows that SHRED is robust against relearning attacks and membership-inference attacks, and it maintains stable utility even after many sequential unlearning runs.